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Sunday, January 25, 2009

"I think she gave up on me."

Ugh. Long story short. MIL told Dan last night that "Stacey will certainly get pregnant now, b/c I gave away all the baby stuff." Backstory is that she had a crib, stroller, etc for our nephews that live a few hours away, when they come visit. They didn't need the stuff anymore, and MIL knows a family that can really use it. So she gave it away. She had been saving it for us.

As soon as he told me I could feel myself starting to pout, and said that she had given up on me. I didn't cry, but I was most certainly whimpering. He tried to explain that she did it out of superstition. The "get rid of it all and then she'll get pregnant" type of thing. I know that it all went to a needy family.

But still. It certainly felt like she was giving up.

3 comments:

Bluebird said...

I'm so sorry, I'm sure that must have stung. At least it seems you're giving your MIL's motivations the benefit of the doubt - I probably wouldn't be able to do the same with mine :)

Andrea said...

I'm sorry, I would have totally thought of it that way, too.

Gina said...

I'm so sorry. I would have felt the same way.